I was born on Valentine’s Day, and for the first years of my life that equated to paper Valentines plus birthday cards, and chocolate kisses plus birthday cake. And with a mom like mine, it meant heart-shaped birthday cake. It was the best.
Over the years, upon learning that I was born on either “The Day of Love” or “Another Stupid Hallmark Holiday,” depending on who I was talking to, people have been curious about what it’s like to have a birthday on Cupid’s day. I imagine it’s like the curiosity I have about the birthday experiences of people born on Christmas or New Year’s.
Valentine’s Day is a small enough holiday that I’ve never felt like it overshadowed my birthday, but it’s also a bit of a controversial holiday in that some people love it, a few people forget it, and many people think it’s just another commercial holiday.
Though I’ve only ever known a Valentine’s birthday, I have to say that I’ve always loved it, even after the heart-shaped birthday cakes stopped. The most notable thing about a February 14th birthday is that people tend to remember it, so that’s a notch in the “pro” column of Valentine’s birthdays.
But more than that, I’ve never had a chance to hate Valentine’s Day. And I spent plenty of Valentine’s Days without a valentine. No matter my single status, I always had plans on 2/14, and I like to think that I distracted some fellow single gal pals along the way.
These adorable heart bowls are available on Etsy from RedHotPottery.
On the downside of Valentine’s Day birthdays are getting a dinner reservation and finding a valentine who isn’t scared off by the Bday-Vday duo. Fortunately, I’ve got both this year.
Finally, let us not forget the plethora of sweet treats available this time of year. Peanut-butter-chocolate combos are my personal recommendation.
So, between the chocolate, the birthday wishes, and the not caring about Valentine’s Day plans, I have to say: I totally recommend February 14th birthdays, and for that I’ve got to give a shout out to mom and dad. Thanks guys!
I love the birthday pic. You’re rocking that hair, and Brooke’s just making sure you’ve got those candles under control – which, obviously, you do.
That’s what older sisters are for — guiding you through life’s big events, like blowing out six candles with one breath
Also, notice chubby baby Jake in my aunt’s arms.
I think a celerbration at the Ramp would cover all bases
I think that sounds like a fine idea! Let’s make it a date.
My husband’s birthday is Christmas Day and mine is the day after New Year’s… both are not ideal. I think Valentine’s Day is an awesome day for a birthday though. It’s all about love, and who doesn’t want that on their birthday?!
How ironic! Did you guys bond over sharing the spotlight of a major holiday on your birthdays? It’s funny how something totally out of your control can shape a life experience, like a birthday. I imagine that as parents you have to get creative with ideas for making the birthday girl and boy feel extra special even if its a special day for everyone. That’s a tough job!
And as a new wife… the birthday/Christmas combo is now my “make it amazing” project!
I love that your birthday is on Valentine’s Day! Like you said, it’s memorable and it always gave us something to do in college. Happy early birthday, Valentine’s Day baby!
Thanks, Jor! I wouldn’t be mad about celebrating another birthday with those double chocolate chip cookies from the dining hall. It may have blizzard-ed, but you gals showed me a great birthday! Thoughts on organizing a virtual tea leaf reading?